How Important is Timing in Relationships?
They say that timing is everything. With all the people in this world, what are the odds of falling for someone and have them like you back in the same way and at the same time? Is it emotions that control or actions or fate or a set of circumstances? When it comes to relationships, is timing everything?
There are so many factors to consider for a relationship to be considered and deemed successful. When you meet someone and things end people often say the timing wasn’t right. Maybe he came out of a long term relationship and isn’t ready for commitment. Or maybe she got a new job and wants to focus on her career. Or there could be other factors that for whatever reason are keeping you apart. Perhaps these are correct or maybe they are excuses.
So, can you create the right timing or do you just have to trust that if it is meant to be you will end up together?
I believe that it is a combination of both. If the moment isn’t right for you as a couple, you have to have confidence that things will unfold if they are meant to (if for no other reason than your own sanity and peace of mind!). The Law of Attraction suggests that the Universe has a sense of timing and you need to relax and allow everything to happen naturally and that you will end up in the right place at the right time. It is easier said than done, but try to be patient and don’t force things that just aren’t on the cards. Trust that timing is important and that if it is not working out, there is a reason.
On the other hand I don’t think one should leave everything to chance. We have to live our lives and
create our own reality. If you really care about someone and want to be with them, you will find a way to make it work. You may need to compromise and fight for it but hopefully you will manage to overcome any obstacles. It requires commitment and you both have to want the same things.
People often meet the right person at the wrong time and make it work. Others end up with the wrong person because it was the right time. Others meet the right person at the right time and let them go saying the timing was off.
We can wish for the right time, more time, a different time, but the bottom line is there is no time like now to make things work for you. Give fate a helping hand and trust that the timing will be perfect when it is meant to be. But remember, they also say that where there is a will there is a way…
What do you think? Are relationships all about timing?
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